I asked men and women to come up with the three traits that they most desired in a romantic partner. I have now made a word cloud of the results. So…here is what women look for….You have to read behind the words to understand what the genders are saying. When women say “funny” they don’t mean “funny”…which is actually not a trait that generally relates to strength and a stronger mate (most comedians are losers). what they mean by funny is a lighter more compatible personality that doesn’t take life so seriously. they certainly aren’t looking for a dry type of humor. they mean something other then the word funny.
and here is what men look for….
What do you think? What are the main differences?
Same goes for the men who really aren’t asking for intelligence. they are asking for empathy and respect that doesn’t patronize …and finally of course all these desire traits are if the superficial stuff is taken care of… money and physical traits. Studies have been made regarding the Genders and it was found that both genders are influenced by visual stimulations (this contradicts general popular opinion that only men are looking for physical traits). however the women are looking for body gestures that convey strength… while men are looking directly at a woman’s face… that conveys her fertility and ability to nurture. When women say funny… they really mean confidence. When men say intelligence they are correlating a desire for facial approval which is what they are libidinally drawn to. Men looking at a girls posterior or breasts first is a complete myth.
As someone who grew up in NY and LA and knows plenty of professional “Comedians” who are not as famous as Jerry Seinfeld I assure you that women are not saying what they want. The top quality or attribute that women want is by no means a “sense of humor”. If it was then a lot of starving Comedians would be doing a lot better in their love life. Men are certainly not looking for “Intelligence”. the GENDERS will never be honest. no body is exactly the same, but no serious scientist would take the results here seriously. …of course.. with Global Warming and Gloria Steinem politically slanted Porn statistics from the 70s will attest to historically… who knows what the cultural gender snobs will attest to this week. The Gender fascist are social engineers of a religion and they create their “science” as it goes along. this Lysenkoism next week will put every 14 year old boy on Prozac as the Hilary Clinton pant suit parade pushes a gender slanted stimulus bill. I’m sure you think that women actually are looking for a “sense of humor” when in fact they are looking for a bully to do their bidding. All opinions must submit to the Donna Hanover and the Vagina Monologues…. dare we question the Gloria Steinem state?